# So frustrated! I fucked up again! Not enough time to do all remaining tasks by the deadline!

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**Category:** Akrasia\
**Created:** [May 4, 2019, 5:58am UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297 "2019-05-04T05:58:33Z")\
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**Author:** ![zedmango](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c67d28/32.png) [@zedmango](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/zedmango)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2019, 5:58am UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/1 "2019-05-04T05:58:33Z")

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Grrr I am so frustrated that I fucked up again!

My deadline is in less than three hours and I have too many beeminder goals left for today to finish them all before the deadline!

I have my 4 30-minute goals, I have to read 2 chapters, 15 min of GTD processing, and 2 24-min meditation goals!

I’ll have to do whatever costs me the least money but it’s frustrating. Again I didn’t get everything done today! And I’m tired and wanted to go to bed early!

Guys, help me figure out how to do better ☹

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**Author:** ![dreev](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/forum.beeminder.com/dreev/32/4311_2.png) [@dreev](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/dreev)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2019, 6:17am UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/2 "2019-05-04T06:17:40Z")

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Eek! I know this feeling! Hugs!

My long-term suggestion is [deadline waterfalls](http://blog.beeminder.com/waterfalls). In short, go to [beeminder.com/reminders](http://beeminder.com/reminders) and stagger all the deadlines so they happen one at a time.

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**Author:** ![phi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/forum.beeminder.com/phi/32/2586_2.png) [@phi](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/phi)\
**Post date:** [May 4, 2019, 8:31am UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/3 "2019-05-04T08:31:26Z")

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Yeah time based goals can (and I suppose will) do that at some point. Welcome to the club 😅

And I shall prioritise the soft deadline automatism I have been working on 🙂

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**Author:** ![adba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c2a13f/32.png) [@adba](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/adba)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2019, 6:47pm UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/4 "2019-05-09T18:47:55Z")

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Honestly, I occasionally weasel deadlines by an hour or so when I run into the situation of “I’m actively working on this thing but will finish it slightly after the deadline.” A couple of times, that’s even been up to three or four hours (and one special case was about 4 days, back when a normal 4-day period over a weekend unexpectedly turned into 8+ workdays…). Don’t tell the Beeminder team, but I’ve found this extremely useful/productive and it gets me the (incredible) benefits I’m looking for from using Beeminder. 😃

If I’m tired and want to go to bed early, I choose to derail instead.

Deadline waterfalls sound like a good idea.

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**Author:** ![phi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/forum.beeminder.com/phi/32/2586_2.png) [@phi](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/phi)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2019, 9:40pm UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/5 "2019-05-09T21:40:16Z")

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interesting, I assume you considered moving the deadline on those goals to 4am or 6am, so… why didn’t you?

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**Author:** ![adamwolf](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/forum.beeminder.com/adamwolf/32/484_2.png) [@adamwolf](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/adamwolf)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2019, 10:36pm UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/6 "2019-05-09T22:36:31Z")

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I think there’s a Beeminder feature that lets you do this officially! I think it’s called snoozing.

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**Author:** ![adba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c2a13f/32.png) [@adba](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/adba)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2019, 9:53pm UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/7 "2019-05-10T21:53:49Z")

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> [@phi](#):
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> interesting, I assume you considered moving the deadline on those goals to 4am or 6am, so… why didn’t you?

If you mean me, I have a very simple answer to this: there are weeks on end when I bring 3-hour goals down to the last 10 minutes and barely complete them by the deadline without wiggling it.

If I set them to 4am or 6am, this pattern means that I would utterly trash my sleep schedule, and I’d rather not do that.

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**Author:** ![zedmango](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c67d28/32.png) [@zedmango](https://forum.beeminder.com/u/zedmango)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2019, 4:13am UTC](https://forum.beeminder.com/t/so-frustrated-i-fucked-up-again-not-enough-time-to-do-all-remaining-tasks-by-the-deadline/5297/8 "2019-05-15T04:13:09Z")

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This is also true for me. If I move the deadline later I’ll also start the projects later.
