a thread of derailment and non-legit examples

They’re easier than the other goal to do when sick, since they just require meditating and spending a few minutes reading my therapy cards. But while sick I might (and did) sleep through them and lose money.

I could have a setup where they’re not in no-excuses mode, and being sick is a legit excuse - but there’s a trade-off there, which is that if I didn’t have any goals in no-excuses mode, it’d be easy to start making excuses. If they’re all in no-excuses mode, I’d lose too much money and wear myself out. Having some of them but not others bee in no-excuses mode is a good compromise.

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I can relate, but the cost of that (for me) is having beeminder bee significantly less effective, so I’m trying this approach, which is a little more unfair, but a lot more effective. I think that’s a worthwhile trade.

Plus, who are we kidding, 99% of the time it actually is my fault.

It’s also a worthwhile endeavor to increase one’s zone of control by taking personal responsibility for more things.

And also, in my view, paying is totally punishment - that’s the point!

that all makes sense - I’m doing something similar.

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