Hu, I don’t have any goal like this and no need (so far). Two things: I’m in a chat group with my best friends and it’s a very fun and active group with basically 0 noise.
Then some other friend and me meet like maybe once every two weeks and cook stuff together. But we’re also in a chat and talk daily.
And then I’m also a gamer and love playing co-op video games with my friends online. And while doing that we talk in voice chat about anything really. And it’s always super fun.
And that does the trick for me. I dunno. This has been working great for me for many years now. Can recommend!
I guess if you wanted you could turn that into beeminder-y goals. So for those who want some inspiration on this, maybe this helps