Put phone away box

Week 9 Summary

Not a good week for graphs again, with 19h total - but 3h 30 was travels and utilities, then I spent 7h on Messenger (compared to 1-2h on a regular week) because I used it to video call my wife when she was away.

Take them away, I have consistent 12-14 hours, with 1h of doomscrolling a week, the rest is utilities, talking with friends, banking and switching between the apps.

Derailments

That being said I exhausted all my buffer on pick ups goal with 666 pick ups. Now the real game starts to keep it under 50 a day. This should be the final boss, as I can promise you that now I control total screen time.

I derailed in the phone in the box goal - I set ambitious goal to 4h a day, but my automatic integrations are very poor. To make it well, you really need a stateful device like I had. I set the commitment to 3h a day now (was 2h initially).

Thoughts

Since I use beeminder to change the life structurally perhaps for the first time (not anki or books goals) I have a few notes:

  • beeminder promotes micro habits and they don’t really help (strong opinion, weakly held). I fell into trap of microgoals like “no phone before 8 AM” etc. It’s a very bad thing to do. Design of the goals matters more than following the goal. In many cases, I think I confuse types of goals. One type is “setting the floor level” (phone pick ups, fall asleep time) and other is achieving your dreams (completing PhD, coding your app, learning Spanish etc).
  • beeminder is not the best tool to change the “architecture of the day”. Many of you check “fall sleep time” or “wake up time“, but I have intuition that the real problem is somewhere else (weak opinion, strongly held).

This is not a critique of beeminder, it’s just a very versatile tool that has some usage patterns and its own logic.

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I also want to say that all of you are missing out on not having a hard limit on scrolling apps.

Use https://jomo.so/ - just hard cap Facebook + X + Instagram + TikTok at 10 minutes a day combined, what could possibly happen? I think this is very basic thing that should be more popular. Also 1h of YouTube daily (since it has long-form content too) should be enough for many.

Even if you’re within healthy 20-30 minutes a day, it won’t hurt to elevate the standards.

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Because Jomo seems to be waitlist-stage for Android right now, for all of my fellow non-Apple-users, I would like to mention YourHour that I am using for this same purpose.

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Great point!

I gave myself some space during Christmas break, so that I am restarting everything now.

I don’t find total time challenging anymore, which I perceive as a personal success. Since I started this thread, I read about 20 books. This feels great.

I want to focus on two goals:

  • pick ups - I want to stay under 50 pick ups a day. This makes total screen time go down and eradicates compulsive checks. This is hard. Even at 1-2h a day I can have 70 pick ups. This iPhone metric isn’t perfect. Sometimes it reports me a pick up when I am in some other room. Nonetheless, it’s my fault to add remaining pick ups.
  • put phone away - time spent with phone away, this prevents me from using the phone before sleep and improves focus - think of pomodoro goals

on top of that I use Jomo to set hard limits for the apps.

In some time I will be back with more charts and images.

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